How to keep children safe online without making them afraid of the internet

The internet is full of useful things for children, and also of risks such as inappropriate content, bullying, scams and strangers who pretend to be friends. Safety works best when it is built on trust.

Talk early and often

Ask your child what they enjoy online. Make it clear that they can tell you if something upsets them, and that they will not be punished for telling the truth.

Agree on simple rules

1. Do not share your full name, school, address or phone number with strangers.
2. Never meet an online friend without a trusted adult.
3. Do not share passwords, even with friends.
4. Tell a trusted adult if someone asks for secrets, photos or money.
5. Think before you post, because posts can stay online.

Use the tools

• Use parental controls and safe search settings.
• Set age-appropriate rules for apps and games.
• Keep devices in shared spaces for younger children.
• Make sure accounts are private.

Watch for signs of trouble

Changes in mood, secrecy, sleeping badly or avoiding the phone can mean something is wrong. Gently ask and listen.

Be a good example

Children copy what adults do. Show healthy habits, such as putting the phone away at meals.

If something goes wrong

Stay calm, save the evidence, block and report the person, and get help from a trusted adult, a school or the relevant authorities.

Written by the EarnNaija team at EarnNaija Digital Technologies.

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